Transgender dating means the man needs to consciously think about showing respect for the TS. Treating a GG with respect comes more readily than it does with the TS. Where a TS is involved, it gets a bit more problematical due to a man’s built-in perceptions. Here is a true story about transgender dating:
My girlfriend Nikki walked into a TS club in Los Angeles recently, with two transgendered friends. Inside, one of the girls met a fellow she had met once before and had talked with online for about a month. Each knew ahead of time the other would be at the club that night. They began talking, then slow-danced, then all three girls and the fellow talked for a half hour.
“I’ve got to go out and make a quick phone call, I will be right back,” the guy said. He walked away.
After a half hour, the girl went looking for him. He had left the club altogether. “He’s gone,” she said to the others.
“The discussion between us girls turned to what this means,” my girlfriend said. “He’s leaving her alone in a pick up bar with lots of other men around that could swoop down on her at any moment. They had a little relationship going, a brief one, but there was real interest on the part of both. I mentioned, ‘He wouldn’t do this to a genetic girl.’ Things like this happen all the time to TS’s.”
The abandoned girl was upset and 45 minutes after he went to “make a quick phone call,” she left.
Soon afterwards, the guy returned, looking for the girl. He comes up to the two remaining girls, and says, “I’m back. Hey where’s my girl?” His demeanor was as though there were nothing wrong.
“She left,” the girls said.
“Why, what happened?” he asked.
“Well, she figured after 45 minutes that you hadn’t gone to make a quick phone call, that you had dumped her,” my girlfriend told him.
He was very surprised at that, she said. “I’m sorry. But I told you I was coming back.”
“Yes, but that was about an hour ago.”
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