First off when you sign up to a dating site you need to fill out your personal information, such as age, height and body type. Do yourself a favor do not lie! It’s useless to lie about yourself, likes, dislikes, occupation, etc… If you ever plan on actually meeting people in person from internet dating services, then be honest.

Photos are very important if you plan to get as many responses as possible. Men especially will search through profiles with photos only and contact people based on their appearance, so it’s important to have a photo. Post a recent photo of yourself, not one that was taken 10 years ago, this can be deceiving if your appearance has changed. Ladies watch your email inbox fill up if you put a photo on your personal ad. The amount of emails you will receive will amaze you.

Try not to jump into sex talk in your profile too much, unless you are on a site like Adultfriendfinder.com. People might be scared off if they think sex is your only reason to want to meet them. We are all sexual beings however keep the sex chat in the background in the beginning.

When you do find someone you are interested in take it slow! Send a few emails back and forth, chat on instant messenger then work up to a telephone conversation. Don’t ask to meet right away, and do not meet right away. You need to be smart and stay safe. When it comes time to meet in person, do so in a public place and take your own transportation. I’m not trying to scare you, it’s just important to be safe, while meeting people you know very little about.

Try not to discuss previous relationships as this is a big turn off for people. No one wants to hear about negativity especially when you are first getting to know someone. Be positive and your personality will shine.

If you have already starting searching through dating sites, you can see that their is an endless supply of men and women looking for casual dating , romance and marriage. It can be overwhelming to try to find something you like because now you have too many choices compared to the real world. Don’t get overwhelmed, this is easy to do. Write down what you are looking for and search for people who fit your requirements.

This might be a no brainer but do not ask someone to marry you when you first start corresponding with them. And don’t say that you love them or they are your soul mate right off the bat, this might not go over too well. You would be surprised at how many men do this! The bottom line use your common sense, be honest, take your time and have fun!

Not all girls are born female. There is a special class of woman out there, with a different set of attributes than the “genetic girl,” or GG. It’s the transsexual woman, or “TS.” A woman who used to be a male. “Pre-Op” refers to the fact that she has not had sexual reassignment surgery (SRS), the sex-change surgery.

Definitions: A “pre-op transsexual” is a woman in the wrong body, one who has breasts (through taking female hormones and/or breast implants), and a cock. A TS is almost always living full time as a woman. A “non-op transsexual” means that the TS will not have SRS. Usually that is also the case with a pre-op TS. I will be referring to both categories of TS as pre-op in this article, since it is a more widely used expression.

These are the topics that will be addressed in this article:

1. Why would a guy want to date a pre-op TS?
2. Sexual confusion and disorientation.
3. What does a TS look for in a guy?
4. How should a guy approach and treat a TS?
5. How does a TS regard herself?
6. The TS and the gay male community.
7. Sex with a TS.
8. Shemale escorts.

Let’s address them one by one.

1. Why would a guy want to date a pre-op transsexual?

A lot of guys who show interest in TS’s are, in fact, bisexual. Others are bi-curious. Still others are looking for cheap thrills. Some men find TS’s to be more feminine than GG’s. And then, of course, there are guys who seem to just plain connect better with a pre-op transsexual than a GG.

For the guys just seeking a sexual experience, there are plenty of shemale escorts available who will happily provide an exciting experience for a fee, without any danger of commitment. Don’t know any escorts? Use a search engine, search under keywords “shemale escorts (enter name of your city or state)” — odds are you will find what you need.

TS’s tell me that most of the guys who contact them are, in fact, bisexual or bi-curious. They say these men are often looking for a same-sex experience but packaged in such a way that they have deniability. They seek to deny (to themselves, probably) that sex with a person who has both tits and a dick is homosexual in nature, when the guy is sucking that dick or getting fucked by it.

Meet asiangoddessnyc@yahoo.com, of New York.Some men find today’s so-called independent woman to be not very feminine at all, overly assertive, argumentative, prone to characterizing a simple male advance as “harassment,” and a general pain in the ass to be around. One guy told me dating a so-called independent woman “is like dating your brother.” Who among the women of today delight in being extremely (and classically) feminine? The TS’s.

Others find solace with a pre-op transsexual because she used to be a male and has a far better understanding of what it means to be male than most GG’s ever will. Any guy who is chronically misunderstood by GG’s will be able to appreciate the viewpoint of the TS.

2. Sexual confusion and disorientation.

Guys ask me for advice. “I met this transsexual woman at a club and I am really attracted to her but I am concerned that it means I am gay or something. Am I?”

Some careful dialogue with the guy usually uncovers the fact that he was very attracted to the TS’s femininity. Her look, her voice, her movement, her laugh, her smile, her scent, and all those other feminine cues that trigger interest and a masculine response from a guy. Gay guys are not attracted to those attributes.

Therefore, if a straight man finds himself interested in a pre-op transsexual and is experiencing Meet Jamie of Indiana, email: Glamazonblondets@aol.com. some confusion as a result, then he needs to consider exactly what it is about her that is attracting him. If it’s her femininity, then he’s not responding like a gay man would, and thus shouldn’t worry about whether he’s “turning gay.” If the guy can accept that he is attracted to a somewhat different kind of woman and still wants to pursue it, take it just one step at a time.

Take her out to dinner or a movie. Talk to her about whatever, listen to her words. Look into her eyes. Can he get lost in her eyes, as he can with a GG? Can he relax around her and just enjoy being with her, as if she were a GG? If so, take one more step. Hold hands, kiss her good-night. In other words, treat her like he would any GG date, at a pace that he can handle, given his concerns. Easy!

3. What does a transsexual woman look for in a guy?

What does any woman look for in a guy? A straight man, a guy who loves and appreciates women.

This quote came to me this evening as I was writing this article. A pretty TS said she wants “a man with class, respect, morals, intelligence, humor and loyalty.” She is having great difficulty finding a man like that.

Why? Because most guys, she said, “are the same, they are just bi-curious or want their fantasy to come true.” That is why god made “escorts.”

What a pre-op transsexual woman wants in a guy is what most any woman wants in a guy. Surprise, surprise! If a guy wants to develop a relationship with a TS (think this through carefully)…how should he approach her?

A TS who hangs out online gets a million instant messages and emails about sexual encounters. A TS who has the genuine sensibilities of the female will not respond to sexual adventure proposals any better than most GG’s will.

4. How should a guy approach and treat a TS?

A male-to-female transsexual is generally defined as a woman in a man’s body. The key thing to bear in mind here is: WOMAN in a man’s body. If a guy wants to get past her suspicions about the nature of his interest in her, don’t offer her a dick. Offer her flowers and a dinner date. He needs to express his interest the same way he would with any GG.

What genetic females will appreciate, so will the TS. Don’t treat her like a freak. Chances are excellent she will resent being treated as a curiosity. She has endured a lot of pain and derision over gender issues, and has spent a lot of money trying to correct a mistake by nature. Be understanding and appreciative of her ordeal. Be a gentleman. Get past the plumbing issues and think in terms of her femininity. It’s not that hard to do and she will greatly appreciate it.

Reading the articles at this website will satisfy your curiosity about what a TS is, what she needs and how she thinks. Therefore, a man doesn’t need to bring up TS issues on the first date. Instead, he should focus on her, her life and her interests. He shouldn’t treat her any differently than he would any other woman. She craves to be treated like any other woman, but she fully expects her date to ask inappropriate sex- and TS-related questions, because it happens all the time. Surprise and delight her! Don’t even bring the subject up. Let her be the one to bring it up, if she wants. Doing things this way will likely make a very big impression. And that could put the guy miles ahead of everyone else vying for her attention.

Odds are, she’s taking female hormones. That often results in feminine mood swings. Expect that. The pre-op TS may still have a dick, but psychologically she’s a girl.

5. How does a pre-op transsexual woman regard herself?

She responds as a woman, therefore she regards herself as a woman. But being female for her is likely a whole lot more difficult than it is for the GG. Why? Imagine how men she meets react when she tells them she is a TS who hasn’t had the sex change. Usually the guy immediately loses interest. He might even react with disgust. Or worse. This will impact on her sense of self-worth and esteem.

Meet Donna of Southern California, email: MsDonna826@aol.com.The pre-op TS will often adopt an image that is clearly, unmistakably feminine as she seeks to define herself as a woman. Probably she will not care to dress in a way that could be construed as masculine. A male appearance is in her past. The TS wants to immerse herself into something warmly and clearly feminine, which accounts for the clearly feminine clothing and heels. The TS is unlikely to identify with female Marines, Abrams tank drivers and fighter jet pilots.

Who is attracted to her? Mostly bi guys and thrill seekers. Finding a man who will accept her as a woman with a dick is very difficult indeed. But the man who can appreciate her femaleness, accept and love her is in for a huge benefit. He will be on the receiving end of a whole lot of attention, affection, and desire to please. His girl will probably go all out to look very desirable. She will wear very feminine clothing and shoes. She will work hard to perfect her makeup. After all, she loves being a girl. And she (finally) has a man who appreciates her. She is very unlikely to take him for granted. Interestingly enough, this approach to pleasing a man and adopting a feminine appearance is rather sadly lacking today among genetic women.

When my girlfriend and I go off to the movies or a restaurant, she is almost always the only female in the place in a blouse and skirt, or a dress — and both the men and women notice her. You can see the envy in the men’s eyes. They want their women to dress in a more feminine manner too, and it isn’t happening for them. The TS’s often have a better understanding of what men want, a better grip on how to be female.

6. The TS and the gay male community.

Often they are at odds. Gay men respond to masculinity, not femininity. A TS is very likely looking for a straight man, for it is a man who will make her feel like the woman she is, which is something to which most any GG can attest. Gay men will generally not find a TS of interest. There is often friction between the transgendered and gay communities. Some gay men accuse transgendered women as being unable to decide what they want. Although transgendered and gay communities ally themselves for political purposes, they otherwise have little in common.

7. Sex with a pre-op TS.

For those men who find themselves attracted to a pre-op TS but wary of the prospect of sex, here’s a solution. Assuming that guy has read the earlier remarks in Section 2, then the solution is to think of having sex with a TS as just a plumbing issue. Forget about her penis. The guy has a girlfriend with a simple plumbing issue. There’s no pussy, so get over it. What are the options? I’m sure any guy thinking of sex with a pre-op transsexual woman has quickly inventoried all the places he can stick his cock.

A TS on hormones may not have a functional penis. And a TS with the sensibilities of a Meet Ranae of Florida, email: RanAllis7@aol.com. She was born in 1964. genetic woman is very unlikely to want to fuck a guy in the ass or stuff it down his throat anyway, so a straight guy need not be concerned about it.

Time for the orifice inventory. Will a TS want to suck cock? Get fucked in the ass? It’s very likely she will. Can she cum? Many do cum from anal sex. TS’s on hormones tend to cum repeatedly, much as GG’s can, but without the usual male-type ejaculation.

Anal sex need not be messy. An experienced TS will know how to make it a great experience. Lubrication is a necessity. Keep some handy.

What is the essence of femininity? Females are nurturers and pleasers by nature. They are warm, loving beings who love to please. Sex tends to be tied up with romantic love. Women love to be “taken” by a masculine man, since it is the act of erotic surrender that centers them, that makes them feel like “a real woman.” Therefore, hardly any TS with the sensibilities of a woman will be looking to “top” a guy or will be looking for a guy who wants to suck her dick.

Foreplay? Remember, treat her like a woman. She is going to respond the same way.

8. Shemale escorts.

The term “shemale” came out of the porn business, and it refers to a person with breasts and a dick.

I keep using the expression, “a TS with the sensibilities of a GG…” for a reason, to distinguish the TS who wants to be treated as a woman, who fully identifies with being a Meet Tiffany of Florida, email: spoiledrottenfl@aol.com.woman, from those who cater to the submissive male crowd, the bi-male crowd and the thrill-seeking crowd for money.

The genuine TS — one with the sensibilities of a GG — won’t likely be promoting herself as a shemale any more than a GG seeking a real relationship will be promoting herself as an “escort.” That means, one who advertises herself as a shemale or shemale escort likely has a viewpoint not very compatible with developing a sound relationship. Act accordingly.

A man needs to clarify his interests and goals. If he’s just looking for a blowjob from a TS, or wants to suck some TS dick, cool. Pay an escort for some fun. If he wants to get something real going, then forget about the escorts. Why forget about them? Those girls get lied to every hour of every day and have heard it all. They aren’t likely to believe that the average Joe asking for a simple date is serious. For most, the gateway to getting to know them is to first become a client.

That’s it. Good luck. Feedback is appreciated.

FEEDBACK RECEIVED:

“Great article. I am actually going on a date with a very classy TS next week. I hope to take her to a very nice dinner and just enjoy her company. If there is no sex then I don’t mind because I will have got to know a very cool lady. I will remember what you wrote so I will not act like a fool and ask her about sex all the time and respect her as a true woman. Thanks and I will tell you how the date went.” -from a man.

“Thanks for this. Made me feel good.” -from a TS woman.

“I love that article. Very impressive.” -from a TS woman.

“Excellent! That will save me hours of explaining things to these freaks. The points you make are well put. Most people are so clueless when it comes to a transsexual.” -from a TS woman.

“That was one of the most awesome articles I have read. I myself have limited experience in this matter, I have only dated one, and it didn’t last very long. She called it off due to what she said was her not being ready to commit. We are still friends and I call her every now and then. So I am a 43-year-old male still in search of the right ‘girl.’ The points you made in the article are great. I think it will open many eyes. Thank you, well done.” -from a man.

“Your article hits all the issues dead on. Dating for us is such a minefield, strewn with so many issues, to tell, not to tell. Is he married, is he a gentleman, is he a jerk? The only issue you don’t touch is violence, with is done to us a lot. At least it was to me.

“I’m a little older than most of the TS’s you probably send it to and I really don’t look my age. So another issue for me has been age, so many young kids looking for thrills. I personally have given up ever meeting online or in the GLBT bars around town. And with my own surgery this week, hopefully I can meet someone just living my life.

“I do think you’re right, we tend to be a better partner and understand the men’s issues better. We also tend to be as feminine as we can be, a result of going through this process. Thank you.” -from a TS woman.

“Indeed very interesting…you hit it all on the head.” -from a TS woman.

“I don’t really know you but I read what you wrote about TS’s, GG’s and men and I think it was very well written and had a lot of validity to it.” -from a TS woman.

“Great info, it answered a lot of my questions. OK now I just have to find someone in the central Florida area.” -from a man.

“Hi, that’s very good. Thank you for putting most of my thoughts into print. I think you should clean up the choice of words a tad, but I think it’s wonderful. In fact, I sent a copy to a guy who was rude with me a few minutes ago. I loved it. Again, thanks.” -from a TS woman.

“I loved your article. You handled a difficult subject with candor and sensitivity. Your girlfriend is a lucky woman!” -from a crossdresser.

“I just wanted to say I enjoyed your articles and to say thank you.” -from a TS woman.

My girlfriend Nikki walked into a TS club in Los Angeles recently, with two transgendered friends. Inside, one of the girls met a fellow she had met once before and had talked with online for about a month. Each knew ahead of time the other would be at the club that night. They began talking, then slow-danced, then all three girls and the fellow talked for a half hour.

“I’ve got to go out and make a quick phone call, I will be right back,” the guy said. He walked away.

After a half hour, the girl went looking for him. He had left the club altogether. “He’s gone,” she said to the others.

“The discussion between us girls turned to what this means,” my girlfriend said. “He’s leaving her alone in a pick up bar with lots of other men around that could swoop down on her at any moment. They had a little relationship going, a brief one, but there was real interest on the part of both. I mentioned, ‘He wouldn’t do this to a genetic girl.’ Things like this happen all the time to TS’s.”

The abandoned girl was upset and 45 minutes after he went to “make a quick phone call,” she left.

Soon afterwards, the guy returned, looking for the girl. He comes up to the two remaining girls, and says, “I’m back. Hey where’s my girl?” His demeanor was as though there were nothing wrong.

“She left,” the girls said.

“Why, what happened?” he asked.

“Well, she figured after 45 minutes that you hadn’t gone to make a quick phone call, that you had dumped her,” my girlfriend told him.

He was very surprised at that, she said. “I’m sorry. But I told you I was coming back.”

“Yes, but that was about an hour ago.”

“I guess I need to apologize to her,” the guy said.

“He left saying he would call and apologize,” my girlfriend reported.

The two girls talked. Both have had experiences where men have said the same kind of thing, saying they will be right back, and disappeared for a long time. “You run into them an hour and a half later in a different part of the club, and they walk up to you as though they had left five minutes ago, not an hour and a half ago, and they don’t see that as a problem. They don’t understand what that does to us as a person.

“Quite frankly, going through repeated experiences like that has a very negative impact, it’s very deflating to you as a woman. Because we suspect that they don’t do that to genetic women.

“It’s not just me and the girls I know, it happens to thousands in the transgendered

community. One girl has had guys call her after 18 months with no contact and act for all the world as though he hadn’t been absent.

“We think this happens for a couple of reasons,” my girlfriend said. “They think we’re not real women. On some level they think we’re guys and that we will understand. They expect us to understand as if we were guys, like one of their guy friends would. They wouldn’t think of this as an issue, they wouldn’t think of this as degrading.

“But we are not guys. We don’t think like guys, we don’t want to be treated like guys. Don’t treat us like one of your buddies. A transsexual is not a guy, we are not going to understand like one of his guy friends would. So don’t expect us to.

“Expect us to react like a genetic woman would,” she said firmly.

“They see us as something less than a real woman, and because of that they react to us differently than they would a genetic woman. In their mind, we’re in some kind of in-between world, not quite a woman.” And when a TS is perceived as “not quite” a woman, the men treat her as “not quite” a woman.

“The simplest thing to do,” she said, “is stop thinking about us as anything less than a female. Make the leap and think of us as women. If you can make that leap, then you will have solved one of the biggest problems a transsexual faces.”

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Oil articles abort latex! That agency oil-based lubricants, beating oils, butter, olive oil…anything absolute oil. Use alone water-based adipose with latex.” The association at accept the afterward advice, based on the blazon of actual the toy is fabricated out of:

Silicone: Vastly aloft to elastic or vinyl dildos, silicone warms up quickly, retains anatomy heat, is non-porous and easy-to-clean. Cleaning: Run it through the dishwasher or abscess it on the stove (3-5 minutes) and viola! — your toy is sterilized.

Jellies: These dildos are fabricated of a translucent, soft, and adjustable actuality that looks like it contains air bubbles. Cleaning: This actual is a non-porous anatomy of elastic that can be bankrupt with balmy soap and hot water.

Rubber: Firm, flexible, and generally heavy, elastic dildos are absorptive and generally allegation added affliction to apple-pie than the boilerplate toy. Cleaning: Elastic dildos should consistently be acclimated with condoms, but can be bankrupt with balmy soap and water.

Cyberskin: This actual is bendable and supple, and looks and feels appreciably like skin. Cleaning: Rinse with hot water, or antisepticize by putting booze assimilate a bolt and agilely abrading (avoid soap or acrid detergents); to accumulate the cottony feel, baptize with cornstarch or talc.

Latex: Use alone water-based lubes on latex, as oil-based substances will breach it down. Cleaning: Acrylic is non-porous and accessible to clean.

Vinyl: Vinyl toys are ablaze in weight, accessible to clean, and appear in abounding altered forms and colors. Cleaning: Vinyl articles are non-porous, and can be done with balmy soap and hot water. If charwoman seems like too abundant of a affliction and you still appetite to use your toy with added than one person, you could consistently aloof put a acrylic condom (or acrylic glove, in the case of some beyond vibrators) over your toy and abandon the cuff or condom aback you’re done. Elastic dildos are absorptive and it isn’t absolutely applied to absolutely alter them, so you should either put condoms on them if you’re activity to use them with assorted bodies or about-face to silicone dildos (which can be aloft to antisepticize them, as mentioned above).

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Candlelight, soft music, a glass of wine, fragrant oils, a soft feather, a vibrator or two and more are all a sacred part of this Divine ritual. We use our imagination and enjoy one another. We savor the magic of the moment. Massage is communicating with sensitivity what we find most pleasurable and erotic; it is making love with our fingers.

My lover’s body is a temple, the container of my loved one’s soul. I honor it. I respect it.

Trust blazes new trails. It creates the opening for intimacy to exist. Among lovers, trust invites the spark of the Divine to ignite their passion.
We listen for the sensual sounds our music makes. We know our lover’s body like a musician knows his instrument and we play it for all it’s worth. We make beautiful music together. She often assists me in writing the score. We take turns leading the orchestra. Our lovemaking is a symphony of supersex. Fully expressing our feelings in this way lessens pressure and anxiety, increases love and deepens trust. We continue to rediscover the things that give us pleasure and bring feelings of closeness.Live sexcam site!

Sex that is deeply enjoyed is freely given and taken, with deep soul- shaking climaxes, and makes each love partner become humble at the remembrance of joys past and expectant of those yet to be discovered and enjoyed. I am attracted to the majesty of sexual union with my love partner and excited by the promise of its lofty secrets.

Last night I made love with an angel. She was so hot her eyes danced as if to escape the fire of our passion.
I am becoming a master at being passionately intimate with the one I love. Sparks fly! We can feel the sexual electricity in the air when we are together. We tingle when we mingle. Whatever my lover and I find ourselves doing in the flow of making love is right and beautiful.

We share our passion without fear, and with patience, commitment, and trust. This level of emotional sharing generates a limitless flow of sexual energy. I seek not just sensory gratification but Divine union with my lover.

My love partner is someone who shares my desire to devour life for the romantic adventures that make life delicious.

Thank You

~ Adam Starbucks, Ph.D.

In the passion of making love, my playmate and I communicate a profundity of love that words cannot carry. Being together in this fully present and intimate way opens the channel of communication to allow for full disclosure of emotions and the expression of our innermost desires.

We never allow our lovemaking to be a routine act of fulfilling desire. To do so would invite boredom. Intimate love is an adventure of shared warmth and spontaneity. We have spontaneity in our lovemaking, knowing that spontaneity between lovers must always be balanced with kindness, care, and respect for each other.

Love today, right now, without condition or requirement. Live each day by love. Seize love when it comes your way and as quickly, give it away. Celebrate love! We occasionally have our very own private party in the bedroom or anywhere else our imagination takes us that might stimulate and excite us. We allow our imagination and creativity free rein. We do not expect our love relationship to be exciting without making it exciting.

The intimate and trusting atmosphere we create together allows an occasional flirting with mutually acceptable fantasies, a powerful stimulus to sexual pleasure. Anything goes as long as love prevails: touch, tongue, tickle; silk, satin, lace; the kitchen table, the patio in the moonlight, the hot tub or Bennigan’s parking lot.

Making love is an open window of discovery, an exciting adventure of each other, allowing exploration of a depth of passion attainable to only the few.

My love partner and I work together to make our love sanctuary more beautiful and comfortable to enliven and make special our intimacy. Live sex cam!

There is no such thing as too much intimacy.
A balance of excitement and quiet pleasures allows a relationship to maximize its potential. My love partner and I have a deep need for the gentleness of a passionate kiss, tenderness, caressing, fondling, and touching each other.

We experience touch as an expression of caring, of comforting and of expressing warm affection. Touching enlivens our lives. It nurtures our love relationship. The gift of touch contains within it the miracle of healing and bonding. Touch is a means of connecting emotionally, physically and spiritually. The gentleness of touch communicates, “I love you,” and is not always a prelude to passion.

The miracle of unconditional love is nurtured by the power of the Divine and our own imagination. Imagine the possibilities!
Sex gives us an enormous opportunity to exercise responsibility. I believe that the sexual experience is immeasurably heightened when both love partners feel free to mutually share their likes and dislikes, cares and concerns and honor each other for their choices. It is the ultimate expression of the joy of life; of being together. It is a Divine connection.

My love partner is the consummate lover. She openly discloses her sexuality, free of inhibitions. I also invite my love partner to know me intimately. Making love with one another elevates us to a level of satisfaction for which there are no words.

The highest form of pleasure comes when you give yourself fully with love, creating a mystical ecstasy that allows both love partners to be lost in time and space, if only for a few brief moments.

Chains do not hold a relationship together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a relationship last – more than passion or even sex.
My love partner and I both know that our individual sexual fulfillment is primarily up to each other, not our love partner. Our lovemaking is a beautiful expression of love at its most Divine level of happiness; a demonstration of reverence for God’s ultimate gift of Love to us as lovers.

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Most people know that although performers are there to provide a service members pay for, they are persons with feelings, too. For whom this is not clear we put together a brief guide about what turns them off.

One goes to private with a performer to have fun and various kinds of satisfaction. The primary goal is naturally to please the member, who pays big bucks per minute. However, if the member wants the performer to do everything he wants, it is useful to be nice. Performers do have the freedom to refuse whatever they do not want to do. So to keep both parties satisfied it is essential that they should both be humane and understanding. We got the following no-no tips from the performers themselves, so it is important to keep them in mind.

What performers hate:

1. Beggars/free-beggars. Make him/her want to do the things you imagined, instead of begging for them right away. It is not stylish, and it’s silly to think that anyone would love to do special things for free, or for a couple of dollars. Begging is the biggest turn-off for the performers.

2. Rude people/no respect. Rude people are almost like beggars, but in a worse version. The rude types should remember those moments of their childhood when they were told what to do by a rude person. Paying for something doesn’t entitle a person to humiliate others.

3. People who leave private without saying thanks and/or goodbye. This is basics. Let’s not be rednecks…

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1. On the couch:

After the bed, the couch in the living room is screaming for attention. And the best part… it’s comfy too. The cushions work as a support system to get those curves and arches to enjoy the perfect moves, while the lack of space will keep up the intimacy levels. Want some more action? Put on a wild flick on video and you have a perfect mood maker!
Word of caution: Watch out your moves, going out of control is injurious…for the couch of course!

2. In the bathtub: Things can get real hot even in a cool bath tub. For the ultimate romantic experience, arrange for a bubble bath with aromatic rose petals and passion perfume. Add some mood lighting, splash a few drops of ‘ylang ylang’ essential oil and be certain that the sensuous experiment will lead to some supah hot sex.
Word of caution: Check out the water temperature, you don’t want to end up with painful blisters or a frozen lover…isn’t?

3. In the kitchen: Be it 91/2 Weeks or Fatal Attraction , the kitchen has borne witness to quite a number of sexapades. The sturdy surfaces and shelves offer great support, especially for stand-up acts, while the feeling of being at an unconventional place pumps up the excitement to newer heights. And how can you miss the yummy treats your kitchen is loaded with? Eat them, but off each other’s hot bods. Think chocolate, cream, jams and jellies!
Word of caution: Know the stuff you are eating and applying…some edibles are good only to eat. So watch out for allergies!

4. In the pool: Though not many are privileged to have one in the confines of their home, if you are one of the lucky few, make the most of it. Challenge your swimming skills and get under for into some underwater escapades. Who said that the inflatable water turtle is meant only for tanning, use it for some steamy adventure…ride it together and get a new high!
Word of caution: You need not be swimming champs, but fairly decent floating skills are definitely expected to get into the water-y fun.

5. In the car: Yes it’s crammed, but it’s cosy too. A quickie in the backseat can rekindle the excitement that you felt during your heady college days. Put on some romantic retro tracks and switch on the AC. Don’t fret, it won’t cool down the passion. When the place is different, the position can’t be a drab. It’s tough to adjust facing each other, but turning the world around can definitely help…hope you got the clue!
Word of caution: Just be careful where you park…you don’t want to get busted!

6. In the dressing room: How about catching her unawares in the dressing room of a store? Sounds dangerous but thrilling too! The fear of getting caught will only add to the sensual experience, while the lack of time is perfect to give you a never before quickie. Thinking comfort? Sorry! All you have is a stool…let him stand as you take charge!
Word of caution: Making noise is not allowed here and do take care of hidden cameras and key-holes.

7. The stairs: If you are thinking they can be a pain to one’s body, think again, as they can be adventurous too. After all, they can give you those highs and lows, especially when the girl is comparatively short.
Word of caution: Don’t get really aggressive if getting cramps in your lower back is not on your mind.

8. On the roof : Yes, this can be a great playground; the gentle moonlight, a cool breeze to caress your passionate entwinings. Pep it up with some paper lamps or scented candles and light music, which will just add to the mood. You have all the space to set the ball rolling…so go ahead and explore her contours under a starry sky.
Word of caution: No physical risks are involved…but just take care of peeping Toms around.

9. In a sleeping bag: Nothing could bring you as close as that sleeping bag that’s meant for a single person and is loaded with two! Why not get into some naughty action and add to a fun-filled camping trip? Instead of the normal position, turn around and have some fun from behind. Talk about kinky fantasies!
Word of caution: Zip the bag properly, you don’t want end up killing insects in the mid of the act.

10. On a plane: You can try the toilet and if that’s too cramped, the seat in a Business or First class cabin. Some airliners with long-haul flights now boast of recliner seats that go as flat as a bed. Take a flight of fantasy.
Word of caution: Don’t try it if you already have flight phobia and take care of people lining-up outside the loo.

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